How to communicate with humans (especially the opposite sex )🙈

Hey lovely people

So today I’m coming at you with a little advice on human communication! Some of you may also find this information transferable for when speaking with someone whom you find attractive!

So you know that tingly feeling you get when you’re speaking with someone you like, or when you’re simply lost for words in the presence of the opposite sex??? Some people describe it as common sense leaving the body, but I call it being HUMAN! It’s perfectly normal to get nervous at times or to feel shy, such is life ey!

But today I just want to give you ONE useful tip! Just ONE, not some long list. One which I have personally found to be life changing. I’m not saying that this is the only way to help curb nervousness when talking with other human beings (especially the human you like like), but this biblical principle has pretty much transformed my way of thinking and has changed how I handle myself for the BETTER 😀.

Timothy 5:1-2~Do not rebuke an older man harshly, but exhort him as if he were your father. Treat younger men as brothers, older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity.

In my eyes treating someone like a sibling involves showing kindness and giving that individual a certain level of respect! Treating other human beings like family ensures that we as people uphold the importance of good morales within society!

So next time that guy or girl starts talking to you, don’t jump to the conclusion that they’re physically attracted to you. And also don’t think because you talk to the opposite sex it makes you desperate in anyway. Talking with others is actually called being FRIENDLY! When we don’t make assumptions about others prior to and when speaking with them, it helps avoid unnecessary heart ache/let downs. So speak to that guy or girl as you would a sibling or cousin, don’t let your emotions or nerves hinder an opportunity for pleasant/harmless bonding. Finally I’d like to encourage you to go out of your way to help the elderly, such efforts can really make a persons day. And I’m sure you’d also appreciate it if another human being treated your parents or grandparents in the same manner!


Love from the godly lady 😘

Published by thegodlylady

Simply a young woman striving to encourage women of God, whilst trying to spread the gospel to a mass majority of ladies all over the world. I am an armature with regards to blogs, but with more time and by God’s grace I shall improve lol. I want every single female on earth to know how much she is loved by God (John 3:16)! Please feel free to contact me via email for encouragement, advise or prayer (I am not a qualified counsellor, or a pastor, but I believe as a young woman I will be able to relate with SOME of the things other women around the world are going through). <<< As of Feb 2019 I completed my Counselling level 3 diploma Praise God 💃🏾. I intend to help others not in my own strength, but with the help of the Holy Spirit.

Leave a Reply